tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post209045154690057770..comments2023-10-08T11:41:32.772-04:00Comments on Is there food on my niqaab?: Dhikr BeansLazeena Umm Yusufhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02038329960999399107noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-15623633060576857032009-02-27T00:49:00.000-05:002009-02-27T00:49:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-43662580195152573182009-02-02T05:43:00.000-05:002009-02-02T05:43:00.000-05:00Assalaamu Alaykum.Masha'Allah sis - you handled it...Assalaamu Alaykum.<BR/><BR/>Masha'Allah sis - you handled it really well. Unfortunately this is the norm from where I come from. May Allah guide us all - Ameen.<BR/><BR/>Btw - love the blog, only came aross it recently. May Allah reward you. <BR/><BR/>Wassalaam,<BR/><BR/>Aaminah.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-24935177259582757192008-06-16T15:47:00.000-04:002008-06-16T15:47:00.000-04:00Assalaamu Alaikum.Definitely not a first for me!Be...Assalaamu Alaikum.<BR/><BR/>Definitely not a first for me!<BR/><BR/>Being a pakistani, I always come across such things. Astagfirullah we used to do such things too, before Allah showed us the right Path.<BR/><BR/>It is ver, very, very common here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-48638275161066575412008-06-15T15:15:00.000-04:002008-06-15T15:15:00.000-04:00Assalaamu alaikum,You really handled the situation...Assalaamu alaikum,<BR/><BR/>You really handled the situation with dignity sister and I applaud you for that. I also like the reminder that the sister gave the 'mourning sisters' about mourning being a perfect time for calling on Allah, Azza wa jala, and praying to Him.<BR/><BR/>As for the prayer beans... yikes... a first for me too!Umm Ibrahimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01854841403985663983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-3788231935086965152008-06-11T07:01:00.000-04:002008-06-11T07:01:00.000-04:00Yikes! It's the Muslimah Mafia policing everybody'...Yikes! It's the Muslimah Mafia policing everybody's mourning and worship. You handled this so gracefully; I don't think I could have done so.<BR/><BR/>Peace,<BR/>PMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-79941552675008661662008-06-10T22:45:00.000-04:002008-06-10T22:45:00.000-04:00It's amazing the types of innovations out there. A...It's amazing the types of innovations out there. At first they used to shock me, and now, sadly, they don't. I believe, anything is possible with the power of innovation! This is the sad truth. I've dealt with this for years and have been working on proper responses. No matter what, people will take it offensively... but I'd still rather try. These disgusting acts will only be passed down from generation to generation. I've grown up at that masjid and will never stop going, I love the regulars who go there and the simplicity of the Imam, although I can say otherwise about the board members, hmph. May Allah guide us all and grant us correct knowledge of the deen, ameen!!Lazeena Umm Yusufhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02038329960999399107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-83445212120351244392008-06-10T22:18:00.000-04:002008-06-10T22:18:00.000-04:00As-salaamu'alaykum wa Rahmatu Llahi wa Barakatuhu ...As-salaamu'alaykum wa Rahmatu Llahi wa Barakatuhu my dearest sister,<BR/><BR/>AlhumduliLlah, I was sooo happy to read how you reacted! The "I'm right, you're wrong" attitude doesn't do anything but makes the situation worse. Tabarak'Allah, doing what you feel (know) is right, and stating what 'you feel' is right..was a great way to go about it. (In my opinion) - we have to use wisdom when teaching others, and a lot of times.. that unfortunately isn't taken into consideration.<BR/><BR/>May Allah Most High guide us to live our life doing what please Him the most. Ameen.<BR/><BR/>Insha'Allah I hope this situation didn't discourage you from going again, you really accomplished a lot more than just your salaat.<BR/><BR/>Wa'alaykum as-salaam<BR/>Love FarhanaSketched Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927888288567386918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-83361996285739789422008-06-10T20:19:00.000-04:002008-06-10T20:19:00.000-04:00wow.. too sad? subhanallah... im proud of you sis,...wow.. too sad? subhanallah... im proud of you sis, you stood up for your beliefs masha'allah. May you be rewarded for your intentions.Adventurous Ammenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06130257311389290780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-4220088815129681052008-06-10T18:50:00.000-04:002008-06-10T18:50:00.000-04:00lol when i first read this, i thought u might be i...lol when i first read this, i thought u might be in egypt, astaghfiruallah azim.<BR/><BR/>im happy to hear u were not afraid to speak ur mind and try to guide others to the right away. may Allah guide all the muslims to the siratal mustaqeem ameenبنت بيترhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11948124343720738832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-68926802007500292072008-06-10T08:48:00.000-04:002008-06-10T08:48:00.000-04:00dhikr beans...lol...thats a first for me too....ma...dhikr beans...lol...thats a first for me too....masha'allah....<BR/><BR/>i think you acted appropraitely though..why would someone try to force someone to do something they dont believe in ???..stick to what YOU feel is the right way(according to Qur'an and sunnah,of course)...dont let anyone misguide you.....Miss Muslimahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08955334002896419040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-79348690545679311682008-06-09T18:49:00.000-04:002008-06-09T18:49:00.000-04:00I've never heard of using beans that was a weird o...I've never heard of using beans that was a weird one for me too. I wouldn't have joined them either. But maybe I would have made a more obvious form of makeing du'a to myself to ewase their hearts... THough not praying from sadness ok then why are they AT Jummah? ANd you're right they shouldn't have been dropping beans durring the khutba. May Allah guide them.<BR/>What countries culture does this bean thing anyway?<BR/>I was thinking at the begining I hope they use those beans to cook a meal for the poor for the deceased person's charity... insha'Allah they don't just throw them or something. That as not cool of them to send the girl as a spy though...grrr subhan'Allah this is why the home is the best place for women sometimes. It's a shame the gossip.American Muslima Writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17494763839971976761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-53703599195710268862008-06-09T02:58:00.000-04:002008-06-09T02:58:00.000-04:00SubhanAllah o_O That's all I can say!SubhanAllah o_O <BR/><BR/>That's all I can say!Desert Housewife A. (The Canadian in Jubail)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13322740753145278710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-19246999211269947672008-06-08T02:56:00.000-04:002008-06-08T02:56:00.000-04:00im at a loss for words......dint pray salah just c...im at a loss for words......dint pray salah just coz they were "too sad"? arent u spose to TURN to Allah in all ur happiness as well as sadness? This is wat happens when we mix our culture with islam.HFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14474076203777262647noreply@blogger.com