tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post9138333160202720843..comments2023-10-08T11:41:32.772-04:00Comments on Is there food on my niqaab?: Valentine's Day & RomanceLazeena Umm Yusufhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02038329960999399107noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-61275680648895619622009-02-20T15:58:00.000-05:002009-02-20T15:58:00.000-05:00SubhanaAllah I have to say that I was very shocked...SubhanaAllah I have to say that I was very shocked at what you wrote and was thinking,what kind of Muslims are those???well it sadens me to think that in Muslim countries some of our people are even thinking to celebrate those nonsense pagan rituals, ya'ni is there anything they don't copy from the kuffars???they seriously need a dose of Islamic education.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-27396211030929241122009-02-18T03:41:00.000-05:002009-02-18T03:41:00.000-05:00Assalam-alaikam,I did a double-take when I started...Assalam-alaikam,<BR/>I did a double-take when I started reading this, but I agree. It starts to look a little tacky when you look at it from the outside.Happy Muslim Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-84707180939189441272009-02-14T20:40:00.000-05:002009-02-14T20:40:00.000-05:00agree!random romance is so much better than the ru...agree!<BR/>random romance is so much better than the run of the mill "i have to do it" romance ordered by valentine's day.Angehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03751004141029620703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-42993561140357701822009-02-14T08:22:00.000-05:002009-02-14T08:22:00.000-05:00I died when I read the first paragraph! Alhamdulil...I died when I read the first paragraph! Alhamdulillah I read teh rest of it. I have been spending the past few day beating down VDay spot fires - people mentioning they are doing something for VDay, then my inevitable and wajib nasiha to them that Vday is really a form of shirk. I became 'fun police'. Anyway, would rather we all had fun together in Jannah!<BR/>Enjoying your blog sister. and the title - is there food on my niqab made me LAUGH. How many times have I asked that!<BR/><BR/>Your Sister<BR/>al-GharibaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-57314770454782357502009-02-13T12:01:00.000-05:002009-02-13T12:01:00.000-05:00Assalamu'alaykum sister Lazeena, I sent you mail o...Assalamu'alaykum sister Lazeena, I sent you mail on yahoo account. Hope you read it =)<BR/><BR/>JazakumAllahu khayranAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-9462001829980978382009-02-12T11:14:00.000-05:002009-02-12T11:14:00.000-05:00LOL at the first paragraph. Silly Lazeena. You're ...LOL at the first paragraph. Silly Lazeena. You're so right. It's so funny because I watch the pakistani news channel, and they're all hyping valentine's day and I see all these boys and girls trying to holler at each other. It's so funny to me. Astghfirullah. May Allah Ta'ala Guide them. It's actually really sad. It's a Muslim country, and it's even worse than the western countries. Astgfirullah.Teerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16529230842649369041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-15688485990034684492009-02-12T02:49:00.000-05:002009-02-12T02:49:00.000-05:00Asalaamu `alaikum :-)OMG when I was reading the fi...Asalaamu `alaikum :-)<BR/><BR/>OMG when I was reading the first part I was like, "either she is only joking or has gone crazy" *rofl*<BR/><BR/>I totally agree with uu. It's sick to see little kiosks and stores selling VDay stuff and then people (especially the Khaleeji women) getting all excited. *eyes roll*<BR/><BR/>Um hello -- this started off as a disgusting pagan ritual where people would dress up in red body paint and sleep with anyone or anything!!<BR/><BR/>Definitely not a holiday a Muslim should be celebrating :/Desert Housewife A. (The Canadian in Jubail)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13322740753145278710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-90754718088400689542009-02-11T19:34:00.000-05:002009-02-11T19:34:00.000-05:00Hey and some of those pics are 'Bakerellas' creati...Hey and some of those pics are 'Bakerellas' creations right? I love her creativity! Those roses on the cupcake are darling!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-24088930767446324242009-02-11T19:33:00.000-05:002009-02-11T19:33:00.000-05:00I love the VDAY candies, they're so cute. But that...I love the VDAY candies, they're so cute. But thats the most en joyment I get from this holiday lolz. B?efore I was married I would fantacize about VDAY plans and everything but after marriage I saw there should be no need for that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-30909407165223490932009-02-11T19:04:00.000-05:002009-02-11T19:04:00.000-05:00lol sis, u got me. i was like, has this sis lost h...lol sis, u got me. i was like, has this sis lost her marbles? :P<BR/><BR/>anyway m sure its not wrong to enjoy the sales, to enjoy our own set special days with Dh.Haniyyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11164267594749728272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-45752535320891700092009-02-11T15:55:00.000-05:002009-02-11T15:55:00.000-05:00Wa aleykum selam hermana :)well... my english isnt...Wa aleykum selam hermana :)<BR/>well... my english isnt good either but here we go :D<BR/>i felt happy when i saw ur comment.<BR/><BR/>yes..im Chilean (i live in chile too ) and i became muslim like 17 months ago, im very happy to be a muslimah.<BR/>Its always nice to see sisters arround the world<BR/>i dont know if u know but here the muslim community isnt big at all<BR/>so i like to know sisters in all countries<BR/>your blogs are very nice :)<BR/>tell me about you :)<BR/>i would like to know more<BR/>Cya soon sister<BR/>Allah bless you!Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00664061940135298643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-4252339001885656302009-02-11T12:02:00.000-05:002009-02-11T12:02:00.000-05:00I totally agree with your post. I've never celebra...I totally agree with your post. I've never celebrated Valentines Day... it IS LAME. Everyone should make special times for their spouse not based on holidays, and that's a great thing to have in a marriage. Too bad it's not the norm. Men need to learn this... Unfortunately for me, my husband doesn't celebrate V-Day nor does he think it's important to be sweet year-round. lol.Candicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15769515811889621243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-48152336202997934152009-02-11T09:50:00.000-05:002009-02-11T09:50:00.000-05:00Ya Allah after My eyes Got big and were about to P...Ya Allah after My eyes Got big and were about to Pop. I calmed down as Continued to Read. Yes it is sad the This society needs days to show care and remember when Islam being a way of life is Daily and Love care, Romance, affection. is already instructed. <BR/>We should never be imitators of the Kufr, this will pull us far from Islam. Anyone one imitating the Kufr is not from this Ummah. Allahu allim Great Post!!<BR/><BR/>UmmismailShukran UmmIsmail Webb, May Allaah azz wal Jaal Reward you. Ameenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09944361871813204360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-83988223880080230252009-02-11T07:19:00.000-05:002009-02-11T07:19:00.000-05:00After the first little paragraph you got me scared...After the first little paragraph you got me scared - I was like NOO this is not Lazeenaa!!! lol. Alhamdolillah you have said it all. I am not married yet, but inshaAllah when I am I expect every day to be Valentines day. These people find one day out of a whole year to respect their women, and Islam we should respect and love them every single day of the year!!! <BR/><BR/>MashaAllah - I am so happy for you, that you have such a blessed marriage and a wonderful husband who cares for you :)!!!nidahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02523208196188800459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-53362570260128874382009-02-11T05:24:00.000-05:002009-02-11T05:24:00.000-05:00Great post and very true. I need to take better ca...Great post and very true. I need to take better care of myself.Mona Zenhomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17881961590047177174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-43276849751356534652009-02-11T03:55:00.000-05:002009-02-11T03:55:00.000-05:00omg just today my husband was getting mad at me cu...omg just today my husband was getting mad at me cus he said i wear all his t's and he has nothing to wear. i think if i just wore a clean shirt he'd be so happy lmao! you're so right though, we really do get comfortable looking like a hot mess in front of them and they do deserve to see our hair tied back and a fresh look. i always look like i just came outta bed lmao. beautiful reminder, i will let my hubby know about the lint in his beard, omg it's true though lmao!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-59242658391831037792009-02-11T03:41:00.000-05:002009-02-11T03:41:00.000-05:00Yes and I remember when I'm visit Pakistan a lot o...Yes and I remember when I'm visit Pakistan a lot of youth they get involve in this holiday too there in Muslim country, very bad. They giving gifts and dates and not even married because they are more open now to follow the West. It is destroying the young people there and new generation. I want to go back and live there with my family but I can't do because I'm scared my kids will try and follow. Even we are living here in America but still it is more easy to mold their mind in our way but in Pakistan it is differentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-68254986746453203712009-02-11T03:38:00.000-05:002009-02-11T03:38:00.000-05:00I use to celebrate VDAY as well. I use to love my ...I use to celebrate VDAY as well. I use to love my husband bringing me roses and everything, nice dinner, until one day he make the same plans in middle of the summer and I felt like a princess lol and I told him and ask him why he did this and he told me you should always feel like a princess because you my wife, it was so very sweet. Since then I realize we don't need this kuffar holiday and 1 time a month we leave my kids with my friend or in law and we go have a meal somewhere and maybe go to movie if anything halal is showing and just spend time together even in home cleaning and it is nice for us. My husband he bring us dinner sometime when I don't want to cook or feeling lazy lol and it make me feel really nice so yes I see how you mean Prophet tell us in sunnah so this things and it make marriage better for us all. MY husband like when I make lunch to take to work and I leave a chocolate for him he get so happy like a little boy lol. You have lovely blog sister I just start to read them after my cousin she make one and I am going around. I enjoy readin what you say I am agree with a lot. Please excuse my English I still learning grammer thank you sister.<BR/>AsalamulaikumAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-28705879418444143832009-02-11T03:33:00.000-05:002009-02-11T03:33:00.000-05:00Salam Sis.I agree with whatever you've said, 100%...Salam Sis.<BR/><BR/>I agree with whatever you've said, 100%. This V-day thingy is really making some Malaysian ladies including Malay Muslims to be part of it. Shopping Malls everywhere are decorating, celebrating and promoting the V-day events. It looks like a second Christmas, only that there are more heart shapes that the stars.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04074090594242081372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2511714794845207106.post-86018750830178730132009-02-11T03:08:00.000-05:002009-02-11T03:08:00.000-05:00Here, here! Couldn't have said it better myself Sr...Here, here! Couldn't have said it better myself Sr. Lazeena! People use stupid excuses like it's 1 day people all over can just be in a happy, lovey dovey mood but that is just so fake! We have to work more in showing our appreciation and devotion day in and day out. It's sickening that sisters fall for this stupid game, they don't even realize they're being played by the media.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com