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Sunday, February 15, 2009

13-Year Old Father: Update

So now three other boys have come forward claiming that they may be the father of Chantelle's baby, Maisie. I did not see that one coming, I didn't think this story could get more bizarre than it already was.


In the car this morning on the way to the masjid I heard at least 8 boys can possibly be the father. Alfie has agreed to take a DNA test and is very offended with boys claiming they were 'active' with his girlfriend of two years. She claims Alfie was her first and only, that statement will be quite interesting if the DNA test is done and the baby is not his. I don't think boys would come forth publicly about something like this and really be lying... that would just be stupid.

I was reading some articles about their families.. subhanAllah... they have so many issues. Stability in a home is key to a child's outcome, this story is yet more proof of that.

22 comments:

Anonymous said...

NO NO NO!!! This can't be possbile! I hope these boys are only doing this for their 15 minutes of fame. 8 boys? Att 14? I know kids are out of control but this is too muchH!!!!!!!!11

NiDa said...

Oh My what an update sis! LOL this is geting more andn more twisted!

Astagfirullah!

Hajar said...

And I've yet to get over the baby issue ... can the turn of events become any more mind boggling that it already is?

KakChik said...

The is sad. The mother looks like 20 and who knows what has been going on between her and the boys. If the families have so many issues than it might be possible that the baby's father can be someone else. I feel so sorry to the baby.

Mina said...

She looks old cuz she just went through a pregnancy, I don't blame her for that. But like anon said, i hope these boys are just doin it to get in the news. imagine if theyre lying how devastated she must be. i want to see how long the little boy is able to keep up with the dad act

NiDa said...

That baby is so adorable too lol! Look at those lil tini tini slippers :D Wooggi Boo!

Mona said...

Wow. Her parents must be so proud.

Inaya said...

Oh hell naw! 13 year olds taking paternity tests? someone call Maury! hahahahaa

Aalia said...

Asaalaamu `alaikum

... :/ WTH?!

café à paris said...

This story in unbelievable !!!

Nur Amirah said...

Gosh... But when I first saw the pic of them and the baby, I seriously thought she was the boy's mum too...

Lisa said...

Have any of the potential fathers even hit puberty??

o0UmmHasan0o said...

salam sis, i have been following this story in the papers, and to be honest its not a shock really that its happened. I mean to think, its just another sypmton of today's society. I think its tragic.. a baby raising a baby. this girl missed sezzy education.. or got to much of it... grrhhh..

by the way i love what you have done with your blog.. very nice.. masha'Allah

American Muslima Writer said...

CRAAAAAZZZY STUFF thanks for keeping us updated lol. Please inform when they get he results ;)

Haniyya said...

ooh thnks for the update ! i thought tht was the end of the whole story. Guess not ! I am not surprised at all, this is happening. Sadly this is happening pretty much everywhere...except some don't make it to the media's ears.

Abu Hafsah said...

Umm Hasan - Matters like this SHOULD shock us. Just because it's rampant and happening everywhere doesn't mean we should be desensitized to it. This is a problem with our Ummah. We have grown used to seeing sins it doesn't effect us and our hearts anymore. Things that should make us weep and ache our hearts doesn't even make us blink Subhaan Allah!

I think what stood out more with this case is all the twist and turns.

First off, this boy is a baby faced kid. He looks like his girlfriends child.

Then there is the claim that about 8 people could be the father. This girl was being intimate with boys in her bedroom. She has her mom and 5 other siblings, most who are young, they must have been home when this was going on. Now how can a parent let their child up with their boyfriend in the room alone with the door locked? They've been dating since the father was 10 or 11. Kids this young don't even know how to spell SEX or LOVE or PARTNER.

On top of this, they are living straight off the goverment, off the people's tax money.

And then there's the fact that Alfie's father left him and his wife and other kids for his daughters 19-year old friend, to start a relationship with her. How messed up is that?

There is no mention anywhere of these kids being reprimanded for their acts. Sure changing diapers and sleepless nights seems punishment enough, but as parents there is still that insinctive love to the child that cannot be broken by anything. Your own baby smiling at you and laughing hits the heart stronger than any other baby doing this. So the annoyance will be turned to gratitude soon enough and what price are they playing? What will stop them from doing it again? The girl is still in school, her mother is at home taking care of Maisie. Only at night is when Chantelle has the responsibilities.

And even more stupid is this 14 year old girl got birth control pills from her doctor. She went by herself and got them, her doctor didn't even tell her mom!!! I know in the US information cannot be released past the age of 18, but before then a parent is responsible for the child.

What's disgusting is because Chantelle is in the limelight she will be given all the dirty names and disgusting looks. There are many out there doing the same thing, who get diseases of all types and no one knows. Or they kill the baby, or have it adpoted. These cases are unheard of in the news, yet this 1 girl will be victimized by all.

The boy's mom is a party woman, parties at the home all the time. Alfie started his relationship with this girl not too long after his father up and split, maybe it was a source of comfort for him. Who knows. All we know is that he came from a broken home and this is what happened, now I am worried for Maisie, what's to say that she won't follow in the same path? Soon enough she'll know how old her parents were when she was born and maybe she will think it's okay to be like this, maybe not. If she follows her parents, Alfie and Chantelle will be in their mid 20's when they are grandparents!!

I am not against young people having kids. I am 19 and I have a 2 month old daughter. Not to sound as though I am not humble but I have a job, pay for our rent, food, fees, my wifes needs and we are happy. We are taking care of our child and was blessed with it AFTER marriage. Our child was by intent, this child was not. I pray that Allah guides all these people to Islam or at least puts some sense into their head.

Thank you Umm Yusuf for posting this article because I really did not even hear about it in the news at all for some reason.

Umm Ismail said...
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Umm Ismail said...

In today's society you never know Young girls/Boys our not Taught to Respect there body's or protect there Chasity. Their given Condoms and birth control , you can blame the parents as well. Sex Ed begins at home its sad that she had a child so young and they both still too young to get a J.O.B. But if the 8 boys are Potential fathers it looks bad on her she will look like the little Ho. As for the boys will get a Pat on the back for simply sewing some wild Oats. but in my eyes They're Hoe'ish too.Hence they begun to plant seeds around already with out a worry of S.T.D's. Parents and Society teach Pleasure not the pains. Subhana Allaah. That's why its not cute for Preteens and teens to date ,Just because the body can handle the grown up there minds are unable to deal. Alhamdoulilah for Islam the True Guidance for All Mankind who Adheres to the Call

Ummismail

o0UmmHasan0o said...

Abu Hafsah, i am perfectly aware of how we should should think of young people having babies, so do not single me out for your opening statement, what i am was thinking in my own opening statement is that the UK has the highest teenage birth rate within Europe - so yes i am not shocked by this story!

thoughtsunchecked said...

Shocking!!!!

Mahdiya said...

Apparently he intends to support her with his £10 - a week pocket money.

The girl is 13/14 and the boy is 8 or 9.

Aisha said...

Mahdiya what are you talking about?????/ Did you even read the article? He's 13 and she is 15, get it straight. I know the story is crazy an so are the ppl involved but don't twist the facts